the Woman Behind WILLOWJAK (a.k.a. your new favourite chaos coordinator)
Meet
Stacey Fuller is the founder of WILLOWJAK Inc. and Willowjak Services, and the not-so-silent voice behind the Instagram account @stacey.is.the.mom. She's a solo parent of three, including autistic adult twins, which means she’s earned her stripes in crisis management, system navigation, and making dinner while answering emails, booking appointments, and decoding government jargon — sometimes all at once.
Now a Family Support Consultant and Autism Consultant, Stacey works with families—especially caregivers—who are staring down the messy, confusing, and under-supported transition from adolescence into adulthood for their children with developmental or intellectual disabilities. She helps untangle red tape, decode acronyms, and turn overwhelm into action, offering practical tools and honest advice that come from the trenches.
She’s a public speaker, writer, and recovering perfectionist whose work has appeared in HuffPost, and whose podcast Choose Your Own After tackled life after everything falls apart—and how to rebuild it. Her blog amplifies voices on topics like autism, disability, caregiving, mental health, parenting, and the day-to-day chaos of doing it all with limited sleep and a lot of love.
Basically? I've lived it. And I built this place for you.
This Isn’t a Job—It’s My Life
Back when I was drowning in acronyms, paperwork, and government systems designed by people who clearly never met a caregiver, I dreamed of something better. A lifeline. A late-night Google result that actually helped. A place where I didn’t have to explain myself or justify the overwhelm. That’s how WILLOWJAK was born—equal parts survival, stubborn hope, and love.
I’m not here to sugarcoat things or sell you a magic fix. I’m here to walk with you through the mess—armed with real tools, hard-won insight, and a pretty solid sense of humour.
What I Do (and Why It Works)
I help families—especially fellow caregivers—navigate the confusing transition from adolescence to adulthood for kids with developmental or intellectual disabilities. I cut through the red tape, decode the jargon, and help you build a plan that actually works for your real life. You know, the one with appointments, meltdowns, laundry, and the occasional panic spiral.
I do this through:
• One-on-one virtual consulting
• Advocacy coaching
• Real-talk blogs and podcasts
• A storefront full of resources I actually use myself
We've got this.
The Long Game
Stacey and her twins live in Durham Region, Ontario, where they're sketching out a future built on community, independence, and purpose (and maybe a bit of peace and quiet, if the universe allows). The long-term dream? A full-circle model of support that includes virtual consulting, an e-commerce storefront, a day program for autistic adults, and eventually residential respite group homes.
More Than a Brand
WILLOWJAK isn’t just a business. It’s my late-night, heart-in-my-throat “what if” turned into a full-blown mission. It’s a roadmap for families who are building the plane while flying it. It’s proof that you’re not the only one whispering “How do I do this?” into your coffee mug at 2 a.m.
And it’s yours now, too.
Final Thought (or Pep Talk)
If you’re here, you’re already doing the brave thing. Let’s figure out the rest together.
With heart, grit and
a bit of sass
Single Mom to Will, Owen & Jake.
Community Builder. Professional. Dreamer. Juggler.
A Boss. Caregiver.
Auntie Daychee. Loyal.
Autism Parent.
Optimist. Justice Warrior.
Ally. Book Addict. Writer.
Proud Canadian. PFLAG Parent.
Debater. Hard Ass.
Pug & Golden Mama.
Older Sister.
Sentimental. Joy Seeker.
Mother of Multiples. Believer.
Hope Dealer.
Worrier. Memory Maker.
Hard Cider Lover.
Small Town Girl.
Indigenous Descendant.
Forever Student. Over-Sharer.
Single Mom to Will, Owen & Jade.
Community Builder. Professional. Dreamer. Juggler. A Boss. Caregiver.
Auntie Daychee. Loyal.
Autism Parent.
Optimist. Justice Warrior.
Ally. Book Addict. Writer.
Proud Canadian. PFLAG Parent.
Debater. Hard Ass.
Pug & Golden Mama. Older Sister.
Sentimental. Joy Seeker. Mother of Multiples. Believer. Hope Dealer.
Worrier. Memory Maker.
Hard Cider Lover. Small Town Girl.
Indigenous Descendant.
Forever Student. Over-Sharer.
WillowjakMama
WillowjakMama
IPADS & WI-FI
can't live without
ALL THINGS JIM HENSON
favourite show
SWIMMING & THRIFT STORES
CURRENT HOBBY
NUTELLA
PASSIONATE ABOUT
THE (OG) WIGGLES
CELEBRITY OBSESSION
FAMILY EDITION
toy story
lion king
smelly markers
I'm ALL ABOUT
Real talk,
strong drinks,
short emails,
helping you find
your superpower
I'M NOT ABOUT
Comparison,
bandaid fixes,
bullsh*t,
feet,
that hustle game
Willowjak was born in 2005, the same year my twin sons were diagnosed with autism. As a mother navigating a world that suddenly felt unfamiliar, I found strength in the love of my children and in the unwavering support of my community.
The name itself is a blend of my three children's names — a quiet tribute to the people who inspired this journey. The willow tree, with its deep roots and graceful, resilient branches, became the perfect symbol for what we were building: a place of flexibility, strength, and enduring connection.
Willowjak Services is an extension of that story — a space rooted in lived experience, guided by care, and devoted to helping others feel seen, supported, and strong.
The Willowjak Treehouse
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Looking for Community?
If you want to connect, share, and find a little community strength, you can come join us in our private Willowjak Treehouse Facebook Group (right now, it’s called The Founding Roots as we build our community).
